You ever just have one of those days were you just feel like doing something but you are trapped in your daily rut and can’t escape???? You try to explain your feelings but nobody seems to understand….Its almost like you are in a jail cell and there is no escape!!!!
Ya, I am having one of those days and it is at this very moment that I start to think about missed opportunities and waisted time and how time is now my enemy…..I know I know blah blah blah boo hoo and all that stuff but is there anybody out there???? or am I alone in my fight against well against I don’t know you tell me what I am fighting against…….is it a fight or am I just complaining?
Mood Management
Don’t wallow in a foul mood. Run, for the gym, and take your headphones.
A recent survey of more than 300 Californians ranked exercise as the surest way out of a bad mood. Listening to music was a close second.
A bad mood has two major components-feelings of tension and low energy–says psychologist Robert Thayer, Ph.D., of Cal State, Long Beach. Exercise’s strong finish confirms Thayer’s previous research–that even a short brisk walk can energize, cut tension, and increase optimism.
Music may work by conditioned response. You associate certain songs with good moods and turn them on when you want out of a bad one. Or, lyrics may distract you from your misery. Moving to music may also release tension.
Thayer found that people combine ways of tension lowering and energy raising for an overall mood-manipulating strategy. The most effective and popular involves relaxation, stress management, cognitive control–giving yourself a pep talk–and exercise. Though men and women equally employ this strategy, they resort to other methods in gender-specific ways.
Men go for distraction and pleasure-seeking activities like sports. Women surrender to passive pursuits like TV or eating–both less effective.
Women also seek social support, emote, or ventilate a problem. Unfortunately, these involve rumination, which may promote depression.
But men are no paragons. They reach more readily for cocktails or drugs, neither of which work very well.
So, I am off to the gym were I can change my mood for the better and I hope to see you closet Blah Blahs there!!!
Nick